"Jane," you may be asking, "what kind of *limp wrist gesture* are you exactly?" Well, you nosy stranger, I'm thrilled you asked because I love sharing intimate details about myself.
^ not gonna lie, that pic is waaaaaay too big but it's so funny i'm gonna leave it for now. really captures the bisexual energy that i'm going for.
I'm not going to really dwell on this aspect of myself, since I haven't felt anguish over it in years, if at all. It's been about 12 years since I'd starting thinking I was bi (definitely used "bicurious" back in the day), and it's so ingrained in me that it's weird to think of myself as anything but. If anything, it's context.
Ah, the meat and potatoes, the entire reason I created this website. All the other sections are gravy, this is what I wanted to put out into the universe. Well, what is my gender?
Just kidding. I'm AFAB and was mostly unconcerned with my gender up until a month ago. The closest label would be "demigirl," but after spending a majority of the 2010s on Beloved Hellsite Tunglr.Com, it's hard to look at microlabels like that without bringing up ill feelings.
My pronouns are she/they but I've been wanting to use exclusively they/them with other people. I feel like if you give people more than one option, they'll opt for what's easiest, in my case, "she." I use she/her in public since I'm out to less than five people at this point in time.